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Potty Perserverance and a Cool App

As my co-dad blogger in chief, Octavio, mentioned in his previous posts, having perseverance is a MUST in successful potty training. This holds true even if there’s regression and you experience set-backs. Regression is normal. Four million toddlers will embark on potty training each year. Hispanic moms & dads often feel pressure from friends and family to potty train their child as early as possible but don’t understand the process so they stop once setbacks occur. We shouldn’t get mad at our child. It can happen that your child reverts at a moment of stress. If at that time he cannot control his urine, he will most likely revert so he/she can advance later on.

Don’t give up! You’re not the only one. I felt relieved when I received a package from Pull-ups that included a softee potty seat, pull-ups training pants, flushable wipes, activity sheets, stickers, and party hats. I mean, talk about encouragement in a box. This also helped my daughter and I celebrate milestones, because every try deserves a little celebration. It is normal to feel discouraged, so having the support of a brand and the Latino blogging community during this process has been extremely beneficial. Speaking of beneficial things, I must say technology can help in all areas of life–even potty training! I know, it sounds nuts but you have to check out the Pull Ups Big Kid App (http://www.pull-ups.com/na/app.aspx). The Pull-Ups app actually makes taking potty breaks even easier by providing your child with games, tips, tools, and more. Plus, this app will bring your child’s favorite Disney characters to life ( Briani’s favorite movie is Monsters Inc., so this was perfect for her).

The main conclusion of my own potty chronicles and that of Octavio’s is to persevere and you will succeed. After all, when have you seen a 12 year old that doesn’t know how to use the potty by himself? Exactly, it’s rare..so keep on doing what you’re doing. You WILL get there. Download the app for extra help..and entertainment. And remember: celebrate their first, second and every time they go to the bathroom… because when you least expect it, they’ll succeed.

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This is part of a compensated campaign with Latina Mom Bloggers and Pull Ups. However, all opinions expressed are my own.


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Being a Father of Four… is what makes me 2x stronger! #AngelSoft

If ever there were a cliche that rings true for me as a father of four it’s the one that  says “what doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.”

I don’t know what kind of person I would be without children but I know that being a father has made me twice as strong, efficient and wiser than I would have been without kids.

One of the most interesting ways that having this many kids has had on my life is that it’s forced me to be creative about how I manage EVERY part of my life and work.  For example, on a personal level, I have learned to accept that no two days are ever going to be alike.  Sometimes all the kids seemed to be magically in sync and cooperative, and on other days they are fussy with each other and/or with me and no amount of discipline seems to make a difference.

The biggest challenge my wife and I face has to do with how we manage our businesses and our family.  I wish we had a magic wand for this but there isn’t one.  The way we manage both is simply by being very flexible with each other and by using our time and resources very creatively.  Managing a household full of children means I may schedule meetings a little later in the morning than most people do, or that we make a dinner meeting conditional on bringing one or two of the younger children whenever a babysitter is not available.  If one of the kids has to go to the doctor, well, that won’t be easy on our schedule but my wife an I deal with it as best we could by moving our schedules around.

All in all, being a father of four and a business owner has made me twice as strong and better at both tasks.  I have learned to be more efficient with my time and to live a more organized life (believe it or not).  I may have to plan ahead anticipating what morning pitfalls may occur but knowing this is normal makes the adjustments that constantly have to be made less stressful.  Despite the many personal sacrifices and hard work of it all I wouldn’t trade having my four children for anything else in the world because they have made me 2x stronger than if I never had them.

What was the last challenge you overcame? What has made you made stronger? Share your comments with me about your personal experience that made you 2x stronger. In addition to sharing your comments, our friends at Angel Soft want to make you 2x stronger – one lucky PapiBlogger reader will receive one Angel Soft product pack and a (1) $25 Target gift card and one (1) Angel Soft 2x Stronger pack with 4 rolls (Valued at $1.99).  To be eligible, please leave a comment about a recent challenge that you overcame that made you 2x stronger. One winner will be selected at random via random.org.

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Potty Odessy Part Dos and some great tips from Dr. Andres Cotton and Jeannette Kaplun

In my last post about potty training Jacob, I didn’t emphasize enough how important it is to make potty training a family affair. Imagine, if abuela takes Jacob for the weekend, she must implement the same rules and training tips we’ve been using with Jacob. Same with a nanny or daycare professional, or even babysitter or aunts. Everyone must be on the same page so the child doesn’t become confused and gets used to his routine.

Dr. Alberto Andres Cotton is a well-respected Miami based pediatrician with 17 years of experience. Dr. Cotton has dedicated his career to the well-being of children, as well as providing Hispanic mothers with the right information to give the best care. Dr. Andres Cotton has teamed up with the Pull-Ups® Every Flush program to share his expertise with Hispanic moms by offering tips and advice that challenge some of the preconceived notions of potty training.

During the #EveryFlush Pull-Ups Teleconference that I participated in last week, I learned quiet a few tips about engaging and educating friends and family about training pants, the process and the fun rituals that make sticking with the process easier.

Jeannette Kaplun is an award-winning journalist and internationally recognized parenting expert, has over 17 years of experience on TV, radio, online media and as a published author and conference speaker.

The #EveryFlush Teleconference answered some questions that I myself have wondered about. For example, ” At what age should I start to worry that my kid is not yet potty trained? Dr. Cotton answered, that there is no age to worry in particular. There is no adult that wets the bed. What does it mean that potty training deals with maturity? Because it has to do with maturity. For example, we cannot ask a 5-month-old baby to walk or talk because they are not mentally prepared. Well. This is similar to potty training. If the child is not mentally ready, they will not be able to go to the restroom even if you persist or if the daycare tells you they should be ready. They will not have control over it. You cannot force it upon your child either his mind, nervous system, and/or bladder is not ready. Also, something I often pondered before buying training pants was when to make the switch from diapers to training pants? To underwear? Dr. Cotton said that when the child is able to go to the restroom, stage 2. The child asks to go to the restroom and uses it without a problem. At that point it is easier for the American Pediatrics Association to say the child is ready because he/she can pull their underwear and it is more comfortable than putting on and taking off diapers. You waste more time with diapers.
Have you ever wondered about the chances of all your hard potty-training work becoming irrelevant if your child regresses? Well, Dr. Cotton also addressed this issue during the teleconference. He said regression is very normal. We shouldn’t get mad at our child. It can happen that your child reverts at a moment of stress. If at that time he cannot control his urine, he will most likely revert so he/she can advance later on.

Ever felt on the verge of giving up? You’re not the only one! I felt relieved when a blogger asked “Did you ever feel like giving up on your potty training endeavors? What made you kept going? How did you keep your sanity?” I can personally say I have felt like giving up..but this teleconference and talking to other Latino Dads and Moms about my personal proccess made me realize it was normal to experience set-backs, important to get family involved, and that there is no certain age where you should feel the child is “too old” and should have learned by now. Every child is different and as long as he isn’t 11 and still using diapers, I think we are good and need to keep on trying! For more tips about Potty Training your children, stay connected to Pull-Ups by visiting them on Facebook: www.facebook.com/pullups to learn more about Pull-Ups and check out the video on YouTube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCS-fQU0Tcc   This is part of a compensated campaign with Latina Mom Bloggers and Pull Ups.  However, all opinions expressed are my own.

Nissan Car Expo and my car of choice for our 2013 family road trips

Written by West Coast Papiblogger Octavio Navarro

If you’ve been reading Papiblogger for a while you know that Manny takes a lot of road trips with this family. Although I haven’t taken as many or as “extravagant” road trips as he has, I have taken a few memorable road trips with my family. The most important thing I consider before embarking on the road is the safety of my family. And that begins with the type of car I drive. I know Manny has endorsed other cars in the past, but I was personally invited to attend the NISSAN car expo this last week and I was pleasantly surprised and amazed by their new cars. I think I’ve even found the next road trip car for my family. The Nissan NEXT event, located at the Los Angeles International Auto Show , gave me an opportunity to explore the wide variety of innovations that Nissan brings to the automotive industry. I was able to check out the the all-new 2013 Nissan Pathfinder with its multi-touch interactive displays, and also had  a chance to drive a wide variety of Nissan vehicles including the Nissan LEAF, the first mass produced 100% all-electric vehicle.. So what is my new road trip car? Hands-down, the new 2o13 Nissan Pathfinder. ( I know Manny, you swear by others, but you have to try this car!) Just look at the beauty of this vehicle via my instagram pics:

The car was popular. Had to wait in line to get a closer look.

Checking out the console. Temperature control and HDD Navigation system. Bluetooth handsfree system and USB adapters..perfect for techie dads!

 

Have children? Want safety? The 2013 Nissan Pathfinder has you covered. Safety locks, plenty of room for car seat ( or seats) dual 7″ head restraint family entertainment system with wireless headphones…that means no more ( or at least less) temper tantrums and having to pull-over for entertainment!

In addition to all the cool features I just described, the Pathfinder gives you back something that is easy to lose once you become a father and that is: your hipness. This car is not for “nerds”. It’s hip and cool and when you’re alone and without the kids, your “me time” will make you feel like a young bachelor again. This isn’t like a van, it has  SUV capability to deal with unexpected weather conditions. Again, safety safety safety–awesome.

If you want to find out more about the 2013 Nissan Pathfinder, I suggest you check out their Facebook page. You’ll find lot’s of pictures and more details about its functionality and features.

Like Nissan’s page FB and if you’ve test-driven a Nissan Pathfinder or plan on making it your 2013 family car, let me know! Tweet Manny and I ( Octavio) @papiblogger using the hashtag #Nissanespanol and #Nissanpathfindr.

 

This is part of a sponsored campaign with Latina Mom Bloggers and Nissan. However, all opinions expressed are my own. 

Join us this Thursday for the 2013 Holiday Gift Guide Twitter Party


With Thanksgiving now behind us what better way to welcome the holidays than with Papiblogger’s and Mama Contemporanea’s annual Holiday Gift Guide Twitter Party! Come celebrate all that the holidays’ can be with the help of a little planning. This guide will help you get some ideas and will come in handy when you do your holiday shopping. As parents, Rory and I have tested most of these products and know they will make great gifts for your tweens, kids, toddlers, babies and we’ve even added some cool stocking stuffers.

And of course we’ll be giving away some awesome prizes during our Holiday Gift Guide Twitter Party!


Our sponsor @CoverGirl will be giving away (1)Clump Crusher, (4)shades of CG eye shadow, (4)COVERGIRL Outlast All-day Lip Color (1) Cheekers Blush! All make perfect stocking stuffers for that special someone, or even for yourself.

We’ll also be giving away a $100 gift card toward ticket purchases on SuperBoletería..perfect gift for yourself or a special someone!

To join in the Holiday Gift Guide Twitter Party you must follow the Hosts & our sponsor @COVERGIRL

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Hispanic blogger 2012 Holiday Gift Guide will be available November 20, National call for submission of gift ideas

Available November 20, 2012.

I am glad to announce that Papiblogger has once again partnered with Rory from Mamá Contemporánea to develop the 2012 Holiday Gift Guide. In its third year, we take pride in bringing you not only the best known Hispanic blogger gift guide, but shifting through endless gift ideas to recommend only the best for your holiday gift list.

This year, the fully bilingual shopping guide will be available online and nationally publicized on Tuesday, November 20, just in time for Black Friday. On the same day, the launch of the guide will be anchored by one of the largest Latino Twitter parties of the year with thousands of dollars in give-away prizes so pencil it into your calendar.

Additionally, the majority of all children gifts that are being reviewed will be donated to the 6th Annual Pa’l Pueblo Holiday Toy Drive, which collects, wraps and delivers gifts to the 500 underserved children in the Bushwick United Headstart Program of New York. The toy drive is an initiative started by Capicu Cultural Showcase in partnership with Sofrito For Your Soul.

Companies interested in having their products considered should submit gift ideas to giftguide@papiblogger.com. The deadline to submit gift ideas is Friday, November 16.

Companies who wish to sponsor the 2012 PapiBlogger Holiday Gift Guide will receive enhanced opportunities for visibility and are urged to contact octavio@papiblogger.com for customized ideas.

Unexpected sabor

Trident Layers has a burst of Peach and Mango.

I haven’t bought chewing gum in a long time.  My wife is more of a gum chewer so I just steel her stash whenever I need to refresh my mouth but can’t get to a tooth brush.  She buys it in large packs so there is always some around, usually spearmint.

As a kid, I had my share of bubble gum.  Back then, gum was like candy and enjoyable because of its unique flavor and ability to blow bubbles with.  I guess that nostalgic bubble gum taste is so powerful that I often see it in other products like ice cream or tooth paste.   I remember having fun times with friends trying to see who could blow the largest bubble while trying not to get it all over our faces or hair.

As an adult, chewing gum became more functional—pop a stick before a networking event or meeting.  To me all gum tasted the same.  So it was with great surprise that recently my opinion changed.  I was heading out the door to take my son to the weekly book reading session at the local library and grabbed some gun that was on the counter.  Following our routine, I buckled my son in, backed the car out of the garage, put the car in drive and started driving the 1 mile to the library.  The only difference today was that on the way, I popped in the stick of gum and suddenly experienced a burst of peach follow by a rush of mango.  The unexpected flavors reminded me of those childhood bubble gum fun days and I even started to blow bubbles.  It reminded me that life is full of unexpected sabor.  In fact, that is what being a child is all about—constant new discoveries.  The gum put a smile on my face and helped me enjoy the reading more than usual because it reminded me that I should be more childlike to help my son enjoy his everyday experiences.

This is part of a sponsored campaign with Latina Mom Bloggers and TRIDENT. However, all opinions expressed are my own.

Top Five Swimming Tricks for Toddlers and Young Children (Classic)

Living in South Florida, we are constantly reminded of the dangers that swimming pools, canals, and lakes pose for our children. Not only as we approach summer, but year-round. As a state, Florida consistently leads the nation in annual toddler drowning deaths. But the threat to our nation’s children isn’t limited to Florida as Arizona frequently alternates with Florida for the number one and two places where children drown the most.  This week in response to increased child drowning rates across the country, the American Academy of Pediatrics recently revised guidelines on drowning prevention and water safety, recommending that parents consider swimming lessons for most children between the ages of 1 and 4.

We recently enrolled our 20-month-old daughter, Briani in swimming classes. Many friends and family thought she was too young, and that she wouldn’t learn anything. Despite their feedback we figured the earlier we got her familiar with water safety, the better. We enrolled her in a 2 week swimming class with South Miami based, Ann’s Swimming School. Ann has been teaching swimming for over 40 years, so we knew that Briani would be in good hands. They have a second location in Cutler Bay. Initially Briani wasn’t too thrilled about the classes, and she spent the first few days crying when it was time to go in the water. Two weeks later she was going under water, climbing out along the edge, and having a blast. While she didn’t leave a professional swimmer, I feel that the classes helped her to understand basics from which she can continue to build.

While not everyone may be able to enroll their child in swimming classes, Ann has a few tricks and tips that anyone can use to help teach water safety to toddlers and children.

1) Pour water on their heads when bathing them. Despite the screaming and crying that you may first encounter when bathing your little one, you’re actually helping them to become comfortable with water. If your child were to fall into a pool, and had never had water on their faces, they will more than likely panic, freeze up and not be able to help themselves.  If you teach your child to be afraid of water, then you are hindering their chances of survival and not helping them at all.

2) Swim with your baby when possible. Let them see you have fun in the pool, go under water and hang on to the ledge.  If they get water in their face, or swallow a bit of water – don’t make a big fuss. And as cute as your baby is, turn them away from you so that they can get familiar with facing an empty pool. Remember, if they see you panic or freak out they’ll probably do the same thing.

3) Avoid using water wings, floating devices, and goggles in the pool. These types of devices can give your child a false sense of security, and a fearless child may jump into the pool without them. It’s better to help your child learn how to swim without having to rely on anything – or anyone. Additionally, Ann notes that wings put your child into in the wrong position in the water, giving them a “bicycle-type kick” or doggie-paddle position with their head up, which results in a lot of treading water without getting anywhere. This can be dangerous – at even less than a foot – if your child falls into the water and is trying to get to the edge for safety. When teaching swimming, they teach that the head has to go under water so that the body becomes horizontal for that perfect swim position.  PLEASE NOTE: Children should always use life vests when on boats.

Same applies to goggles. It’s alright to let your child wear them as long as they know that they can open their eyes under water without them. If they fall in the pool, and don’t know to open their eyes, they may lose their bearings and not know how to get to safety.

4) Learn CPR. It’s critical that parents and caregivers learn infant and child CPR, or enroll in a local class. You can find a CPR training class near you through the American Heart Association, and some local organizations such as Miami-based The Oscar Project offer bilingual CPR training for parents, grandparents and caregivers.

5) Fence in your pool and block entryways to lakes and canals. While most parents invest in fencing for traditional in-ground pools, many often overlook fencing for small inflatable or child-size pools. When filled, these pools can pose a danger to inquisitive toddlers. If you live on a lake or near a canal, the same caution should be taken in blocking access to the water.

Another thing that Ann likes to point out is that the older children are (age 4 and older), when they begin taking swimming lessons then the more difficult it is for them to learn. The reason for this is that they – like adults – tend to become anxious about things that may scare them, like when they can’t touch the bottom of a pool. Younger children and toddlers don’t know the difference. Some parents may feel that their child isn’t ready to learn how to swim, or that water safety should only be stressed during summer months, but this isn’t just a summer activity – it’s a potentially life saving skill that can be used year-round!

Editor’s Note: This is a PapiBlogger Classic post, originally published in May 2010. We’ll be republishing classic content from the archives from time to time, updated — as this post has been — to be sure the advice is as relevant as ever.

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The Legend of Zamacun and the Usefulness of Monsters

Zamacun encounters Briani.

While millions of children grew up fearing La Llorona or El Cucuy, my maternal grandparents Manolo and Margarita raised me to be afraid of the Zamacun monster.

The weird thing was not that I was afraid of an imaginary creature called Zamacun, but that I never knew or even asked what this monster really looked like.

Growing up, my grandparents made extensive use of Zamacun. He was helpful to them because I was a very hyperactive, rebellious kid who often drove them NUTS. At night, whenever my grandparents wanted me to stay away from the refrigerator, our dining room or my grandmother’s super secret guest room (she hid private stuff like gifts and jewelry there), all they had to do was to tell me that Zamacun was in the house and that was that.  Zamacun was so effective that I think it contributed to why I would sleep in a cot next to my grandparents bed until I was 14.

Many years later, when I had my own children, I decided not to use Zamacun or monsters to help me parent my older kids Jonathan (now 12) or Elena (now 8). Oh, I would use monster stuff and weird sounds to give them a fun jolting scare here and there but it was always just for quick fun.  From the time they were little I taught my older kids that God is bigger than monsters.  My paternal grandmother Micaela, the one who directly helped me conquer my fear of monsters and ghosts, was fond of saying: “Be afraid of the living and not the dead.”

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ZAMACUN RETURNS

The legendary Zamacun was all but forgotten until just a few weeks ago when I decided to resurrect him to help me control my cute but decidedly rebellious three year old daughter Briani.

It happened at Disney, of all places.  My wife, kids and I were at a conference in Orlando when a giant coral-looking character on stilts came walking to the pool area where Briani and my older kids were congregated.  Briani was being her usual wild self until she noticed the coral-looking creature.   In three years I had never seen her go more bonkers with fear.  (Her teachers say she’s both fearless and defiant).

When I saw my terrified daughter, I had one immediate reaction.  ”ZAMACUN!,” I yelled at the creature from a distant.

My wife and kids were in the process of trying to calm Briani down about the coral monster when I discovered the historic opportunity to formally introduce this monster to Briani: “ZAMACUN!, ZAMACUN!,” I said to the creature as if that were his name. “ZAMACUN, GET BRIANI! GET HER, ZAMACUN!”

Briani was publicly shrieking with even more terror, my wife and kids were confused and the coral monster was probably saying inside his body suit, “What the heck is going on with this crazy dad?” but there I was, seemingly doing something most parents would never do but feeling completely justified that perhaps for Briani, a little Zamacun in her life was necessary.

Almost four decades after my own grandparents introduced me to to the faceless creature that helped keep me in check, I had presented Zamacun to my own little daughter and this time Zamacun actually has a face.  I even have a photo to prove it.

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