Archive for the ‘Keeping it Real’ Category

PapiBlogger’s Newest Adventure for 2012? A Brand New Baby!

When I was 11, my teenage cousin Tammy and I had a memorable conversation about the number of kids that we each planned to have.  Tammy and I didn’t have a clue about parenthood then so at the time it sounded cool for us to say that we would do a competition to see which one of us would be the first to have 50 kids in all 50 states.

Thirty years later my cousin and I have three kids apiece but now that’s about to change because I recently learned – on my birthday, no less – that PapiBlogger is about to be a dad for a fourth time!

When my wife told me the news I instantly remembered the crazy old bet I made with my cousin.  Here’s what else instantly streamed into my head:

- YOU’VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME?!!!  In fact, my wife initially planned to play a joke on me that she was pregnant.   (more…)

Biker Santa Greetings from Miami

 

Family Snapshot: Briani Tells Santa How Good She’s Been

Wordless Wednesday: The Urgent Diaper Change

A Hashtag for Latino Dads is Born: #LatinoDads

One of the few things I sincerely love about Twitter are hashtags.  The world of Twitter has hashtags for nearly every hobby, cause and calamity in the world so today I want to announce the launch of a hashtag that will be for anyone that wants to tweet content, links, thoughts or statements that may directly appeal to Latino fathers.

The hashtag I will strongly support through (more…)

Wordless Wednesday: Wet Summer Siblings

For Latino Dads, it’s Extra Hard to be a Great Father

In my Latino world, it’s universally understood that from the time we’re born, our lives will revolve around mama.  Oh papi matters too, sure – sorta, maybe, sometimes – but mama?  Well, in general, mama is our Goddess, lo maximo y los mãs profundo de nuestra vida.  (Mama is the max and the most profound part of our life).

EXPECTATIONS ARE ALL ON MAMA

My culture’s reverence for mom stems from the universal influence of Catholicism in Latin America.  For centuries Mary, earthly mother of Jesus or heavenly mother of God, (depending on your beliefs) has been the archetype by which most Latina moms are measured and measure up, even when they don’t intend to.

This has not been bad for us but the flip side is that Latino fathers don’t influence families and children as much as I think they should.  In some ways I even think it’s unfair to Latina moms because they shoulder a bigger responsibility (the hard part of the cultural reverence they get) and it also sets men up to not be as accountable as they ought to be as fathers. (more…)

Guest Post: “Sometimes I Think I’m Wearing a Skirt”

 

So, this week marks another year of Father’s Day Week here at PapiBlogger.

Today our “Keeping it Real” post is on TUN TUN TUN TUN TAHHHH… Fox News Latino!

“Sometimes I Think I’m Wearing a Skirt” details what it’s really like to be the first – still only – Latino father blogger in the United States.

And yes, you’ll learn why I’m wearing a skirt!  so please: GO CHECK IT OUT!

 

Two Times a Hero: This Latino Dad is a Soldier and a Single Parent to Four Kids

 

Miguel is a Navy solider and single parent to four children.

As I continue my weeklong focus on Father’s Day, I wanted to take the time to introduce you to Miguel, 33, a Latino dad who in my opinion is two times a hero: Miguel’s both a U.S. soldier and a single parent to four children.

A divorcee, Miguel was born in Mexico City and raised in Waco, Texas.  He has two boys and two girls: Miguel, JR. (14), Brooke (12), Nicholas (10) and Kimberly (7). When he’s not on father duty, Miguel is a Chief Petty Officer in the U.S. Navy, where he’s served for over 15 years. Miguel and his children live in Beaufort, South Carolina where he is stationed at Marine Corps Air Station Beaufort, SC as the Navy’s senior enlisted leader and supply chief for over 125 Marines and sailors.  As if the battlefields of parenting life and the military weren’t enough, Miguel is also currently pursuing an MBA via Texas A&M University-Commerce’s distance learning program.

PapiBlogger: What circumstances led you to become a single father?

I became a single father in August of 2008. I had recently transferred from the USS George Washington after completing a small deployment in South America.  (more…)

Wordless Wednesday: My Daddy Works Here

Who Can Say No To a Dog?

True story: I was having breakfast with my wife and some business colleagues at an outdoor South Beach cafe when a dog comes alongside our table carrying a blue bucket and plucks it right next to my wife, begging for money.

His homeless owner was on a bike nearby and has the pup trained on his command to carry that bucket table to table, all along the strip of cafes on South Beach.

Guess what?  We gave the pup a buck for creativity.  So did the patrons at the next table.